Warning: This is (mostly) non-financial related. (But the guys out there should like it!)
OK, you've been warned.
Ever see those interviews where they ask the person, if you could give your younger self advice, what would it be? Well here is my advice to my younger self, pretty much word for word.
And here is another great one, just read about this guy's blind date, its even worse than anything I have put up with! A very good story!
Oh well, at least I can laugh about it now. As well, continuing to sell more books online (for the last 45 days I have sold 30 books!) also helps. More money - more space.
September 4th, 2009 at 01:22 pm 1252070554
September 4th, 2009 at 01:45 pm 1252071916
Yeah, know what you mean, and guys online have had many a discussions about this sort of thing.
The thing is though.... It's not that simple.
I don't think it's very simply that girls like "bad boys" and therefore "nice guys" are screwwed.
Because, first of all, they're very ambiguous labels.
The exact thing, while I can't pretend that I can pin-point it, has a lot more to do with personality compatibility and personal desires being projected, right or wrong.... than to simply say, "Girls like bad boys."
For example, sometimes a young female teenager may simply be interested in a "bad boy" if it means their parents don't like him, and she simply wants to rebel.
Instead, I can name you real life examples of really nice guys that actually have women literally stalking them! I'm going to use real life names because I'm sure they don't care.
I know a guy named David who has ridiculously hot women fighting over him, and all he wants to do is play video games.
I know another one named Mike who, ever since high school, this guy had women LITERALLY stalking him. Again, same situation where all he wanted to do was play basketball... until he fell hard for a woman who is now is wife. Funny thing is, not too long ago this year, he was telling me how a woman he knew back in high school found him on Facebook, and now they're online friends. Again, very charming, attentive, sweet, but never compromises his values and emotional stability. And yeah, he's physically a tough guy. But when you ask him, "How do you do it?" Once again, the answer was, "Well, I try to be nice to women."
So, what gives? Why do certain nice guys have a hard time, and yet there are nice guys who are constantly mobbed by women? I submit it's a bit more complicated than simply, "Girls like bad boy."